Emotions
not only shape our private lives, but they also inform policy makers,
politicians, health care workers, and indeed personal assistants and disabled
people. We usually think of research on emotions as being part of psychology
and we tend to locate emotions in the individual. We think that a person feels love or hate or
anger towards another and this is certainly true. But while a psychologist
would study how these emotions develop in a person, sociologists look at what
these emotions do to people: how they bring people together, how they bring
people apart, how they inform politics and shape the institutions we live in.
Emotions makes us what we are as human beings: without them, we would not be
able to survive as babies, we would not grow into adulthood, and we certainly
would not know how to relate to each other in households and workplaces, build
a society and a working democracy.
We
sociologists also interested in how emotions develop between individuals and
groups in a specific time and place. This means that even though we consider
emotions to be universal, we think that, for instance, people have expressed
love differently in bygone historical times. Another interesting example is anger: how do we publicly allow for the
expression of anger? Do women and men feel anger differently? Do they express
anger differently? Is it true that men are allowed to express their anger
whereas women can only be passive-aggressive? Can we understand anger better if
we see it as an act to restore a violated sense of dignity rather than an
inbuilt character trait of a person?
Similarly, sociologists tend to argue that to understand the feeling of shame and embarrassment, we need to look at who does the shaming, and who is shamed, not at how shame feels, which is what a psychologist might ask. Where are the boundaries? What is the role of shame in the relationship between two people?
In this project we will be exploring how different emotions play out in the personal assistance relationship: emotions like affection, pride, respect, dignity, resentment, anger. How do people express those emotions? How do people keep those emotions hidden? How do they help personal assistance go well, or go wrong?
While emotions are very important in this project, they are only one aspect of the personal assistance relationship. We are also studying ethics and power: questions about who is in charge, and
what obligations people feel, and what the formal and informal rules are within the relationship. We’ll write more about that in a future post.
Hello Andrea. I used to work alongside a consultant psychiatrist who had a special interest in researching 'jealousy.' I thought this was a very interesting subject and potentially useful in psychosocial practice but he left to pursue private practice in the smoke and I was quickly immersed in other matters, losing the bearings. Have you done any work in this direction?
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